By Dr. Maya Bailey
RISMEDIA, February 13, 2010—In my 13 years of coaching entrepreneurs to be successful, I have uncovered that many people have a deep-seated fear of success. When I probe for the reasons behind this fear of success, the pattern is very similar. The clients that I work with who are afraid to be successful often had situations in their childhood that caused them to retreat. There were hostile environments, turmoil, chaos and fighting, and the individual did the only safe thing to do, which was to withdraw and form the belief that it’s really not safe to be visible. Along with that, other core beliefs that were formed include: It’s not safe to express my feelings; it’s not safe to be myself; it’s not safe to succeed. Basically, succeeding was not safe because succeeding left the client more exposed, more visible, and therefore a possible target for punishment or disapproval. (More …)
